OVERRIDE! Resources
I hope you enjoyed reading OVERRIDE! What if there was another way? A pocket playbook for possibility. The resources from the back of the book are listed below. They are to help you go deeper into the subjects that pique your curiosity. (If you haven’t read OVERRIDE! yet, the list below will be far less overwhelming if you read the book first.)
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MINDSET
Mindset: Changing The Way You Think To Fulfill Your Potential by Dr. Carol S. Dweck (+ A helpful overview post)
Deepak Chopra’s 21 Days of Abundance meditation podcast
Shinetheory.com or listen to Call Your Girlfriend’s “Shine Theory 101 episode”
“Bouncing Back from Rejection” episode of WorkLife podcast with Adam Grant
Radically Content: Being Satisfied In An Endlessly Dissatisfied World by Jamie Varon
Brené Brown’s TED talk “The Power of Vulnerability,” “The Call to Courage” on Netflix; books: The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly
Playing Big: Find Your Voice, Your Mission, Your Message by Tara Mohr
The Culture Map: Decoding How People Think, Lead, And Get Thingsdone Across Cultures by Erin Meyer
Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo (which started as an Oprah talk)
A More Beautiful Question: The Power of Inquiry to Spark Breakthrough Ideas by Warren Berger
DO Listen by Bobette Buster
You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero
Lisa Congdon Sessions podcast “Episode 2: Own Your Story” (on imposter syndrome)
“Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome” on Harvard Business Review
NEUROSCIENCE
Livewired: The Inside Story Of The Ever Changing Brain by David Eagleman; also featured episode on Unlocking Us podcast by Brené Brown
The Source: Open Your Mind. Change Your Life. by neuroscientist and executive coach Dr. Tara Swart Bieber and podcast Reinvent Yourself (listen to her episode on Disrupt Yourself)
Wired To Create: Unraveling The Mysteries Of The Creative Mind by Carolyn Gregoire and Scott Barry Kaufman
The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton
MINDFULNESS + EMBODIMENT
Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice by Shunryu Suzuki
When Things Fall Apart and Welcoming the Unwelcome by Pema Chodron
The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday
The Creative Act: A Way Of Being by Rick Rubin
“Letters from Love” with Elizabeth Gilbert elizabethgilbert.substack.com
Finding Our Way podcast by Prentice Hemphill
How We Heal by Alex Elle
We Can Do Hard Things podcast with Glennon Doyle and guest Dr. Hillary McBride, author of The Wisdom of Your Body: Healing Wholeness, And Connection Through Embodied Living
Donna Chapman, cofounder of the Conscious Leadership Group on The Tim Ferriss Show podcast episode #536 on the “full body yes”
Hell Yeah or No by Derek Sivers
Breath: The New Science Of A Lost Art by James Nestor
Radical Acceptance and Radical Compassion by mindfulness teacher Tara Brach and meditations (+ NYT How to Meditate guide)
Meditation apps: Calm, Insight Timer, Ten Percent Happier, Headspace
MENTAL HEALTH + THERAPY
Search for “wheel of emotions”
Permission to Feel by Marc Brackett, creator How We Feel app for tracking your moods and feelings; Featured on Unlocking Us podcast with Brené Brown
Already Enough: A Path To Self-Acceptance by Lisa Olivera
How to Meet Yourself Workbook by Nicole LePerla (Holistic Psychologist online)
The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love by Vienna Pharaon (and This Keeps Happening podcast)
“The single most important parenting strategy” TED Talk by Dr. Becky Kennedy + Good Inside: A Practical Guide To Becoming The Parent You Want To Be by Becky Kennedy (also good for reparenting oneself)
An Introduction to Internal Family Systems and No Bad Parts by Richard C. Schwartz
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor Maté
Homecoming: Overcome Fear And Trauma To Reclaim Your Whole Authentic Self by Dr. Thema Bryant and “Homecoming” podcast
“The Me You Can’t See” documentary by Oprah and Prince Harry (AppleTV+)
“Stutz” Netflix documentary with Jonah Hill’s therapist
“Man Talks with Connor Beaton” podcast
Dr. Kristin Neff’s work on self-compassion at self-compassion.org
Nick Ortner of The Tapping Solution (thetappingsolution.com)
The School of Life: An Emotional Education by Alain de Botton
Burnout: The Secret To Unlocking The Stress Cycle by Amelia and Emily Nagoski and guests on “Unlocking Us” with Brené Brown
Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live by Emma Reed Turrell (and “Best Friend Therapy” podcast with Elizabeth Day and Emma Reed Turrell; note it has been rebranded as “Friendship Therapy” now with Turrell as a solo host in recent seasons)
Codependent No More: How To Stop Controlling by Melody Beattie or listen to her on We Can Do Hard Things
“Inside Out” (Pixar film)
“Couples Therapy” show on Showtime
BOUNDARIES
The Joy Of Saying No: A Simple Plan To Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, And Say Yes To The Life You Want by Natalie Lue and her podcast “Baggage Reclaim”
Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab (also on “Ten Percent Happier” podcast)
Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free by Teri Cole (also on Marie Forleo’s podcast)
The Book Boundaries: Set The Limits That Set You Free by Melissa Urban (also on Everything Happens with Kate Bowler)
One Sec app is a tool that can help establish boundaries with social media
HABITS/RITUAL
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way To Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear (also on “Disrupt Yourself” podcast)
The Power Of Ritual: Turning Everyday Activities Into Soulful Practices by Casper ter Kuile
4,000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman (listen to him on Hurry Slowly podcast)
“Hurry Slowly” podcast with Jocelyn Glei
I Didn’t Do The Thing Today: Letting Go Of Productivity Guilt by Madeleine Dore
Do Pause by Robert Poynton
The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
BJ Fogg “tiny habits” free five-day program at tinyhabits.com
The High Five Habit by Mel Robbins
Essentialism by Greg McKweon
Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life by Nir Eyal
WHEN: The Scientific Secrets Of Perfect Timing by Daniel Pink
Checklist Manifesto by Atul Gawande (+ nice overview of his work in the “Designing for Diversity” on The Creative Independent)
(“This Morning Walk” podcast by Libby DeLana and Alex Elle
Keep Going! by Austin Kleon
SOCIAL JUSTICE
Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad
How to Be an Anti-Racist by Ibram X. Kendi
So You Want to Talk About Race? by Ijeoma Oluo
I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness by Austin Channing Brown
“13th” [2016 documentary]
Project Inkblot’s “How to Begin Designing for Diversity” on The Creative Independent
Rachel Cargle and The Great Unlearn
Antionette Carroll, The Creative Reaction Lab (crxlab.org)
SOCIETAL SHIFTS
We Can Do Hard Things podcast with Glennon and Amanda Doyle, and Abby Wambach
Rest as Resistance: a manifesto by Tricia Hersey (and listen to the episode on We Can Do Hard Things)
Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way To Think About Abortion by Gabrielle Blair
On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins And The Price Women Pay To Be Good by Elise Loehnen and Pulling the Thread podcast
This Could Be Our Future by Yancey Strickler
How I Built This podcast with Ben & Jerry, and with Yvon Chouinard
Professional Troublemaker: The Fear-Fighter Manual by Luvvie Ajayi Jones
How to Change the World by John-Paul Flintoff
Robert Reich (robertreich.org)
The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: A New Paradigm for Sustainable Success by Jim Dethmer, Diana Chapman, Kaley Klemp
Winner Takes All: The Elite Charade Of Changing The World by Anand Giriharardas
The Body is Not an Apology: The power of radical self love by Sonya Renee Taylor
Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds by adrienne marie brown
No One Is Coming To Save Us podcast [on US childcare] with Kristen Bell and Gloria Riviera
Anne Helen Peterson’s Culture Study newsletter annehelen.substack.com
Deepa Iyer’s work, socialchangemap.com
“Barbie” the movie (2023)
CHRONIC ILLNESS
Disability Visibility Project + book (disabilityvisibilityproject.com)
The Invisible Kingdom: Reimagining Chronic Illness by Meghan O’Rourke
Between Two Kingdoms by Suleika Jaouad (also of The Isolation Journals)
Everything Happens For A Reason: And Other Lies I’ve Loved and No Cure for Being Human by Kate Bowler (and her podcast Everything Happens with Kate Bowler)
The Gift of Help with Ashley Usiskin podcast
Mismatch: How Inclusion Shapes Design by Kat Holmes
Being Mortal: Medicine And What Matters In The End by Atul Gawande
GRIEF + LOSS
The Modern Loss Handbook: An Interactive Guide to Moving Through Grief and Building Your Resilience by Rebecca Soffer (cofounder of modernloss.com)
Alua Arthur, a death doula behind Going with Grace TED talk “Why thinking about death helps you live a better life” (listen to her on We Can Do Hard Things)
“We don’t ‘move on’ from grief. We move forward with it” TED talk by Nora McInerny
Final Gifts: Understanding The Special Awareness, Needs, And Communication Of The Dying by Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelley
Option B by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
LIFE GUIDANCE
Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans
Design the Life You Love by Ayse Birsel
How to Fail with Elizabeth Day podcast and book
Life is in the Transitions by Bruce Feiler
The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
The Heroine’s Journey by Maureen Murdock
Reset with Liz Tran podcast
Nancy Sun of Possible Things
On Being podcast by Krista Tippett
ZigZag podcast with Manoush Zomorodi
AWE + WONDER
Wanderful: Human Navigation For A Complex World – Find Wonder In The Everyday. Every Day. by David Pearl
StreetWisdom.org (+ Spotify prompts)
Play: How It Shapes The Brain, Opens The Imagination, And Invigorates The Soul by Stuart Brown, M.D. with Christopher Vaughan
The Power of Wonder: The Extraordinary Emotion That Will Change the Way You Live, Learn, and Lead by Monica C. Parker ( + listen to her on Expanded podcast)
The Art of Noticing: 131 Ways to Spark Creativity, Find Inspiration, and Discover Joy in the Everyday by Rob Walker (+ his newsletter)
“Play your way to joy” TEDx by Roger Manix
The Thrilling New Science of Awe by Dacher Keltner; featured on On Being with Krista Tippett
The Power of Fun: How to Feel Alive Again by Catherine Price, “Why Having Fun is the Secret to a Healthier Life” TED Talk (+ “How to Feel Alive” Substack)
Joyful: The Surprising Power Of Ordinary Things To Create Extra Ordinary Happiness by Ingrid Fetell Lee and “Aesthetics of Joy”
INTUITION + INNER MAGIC
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
Expanded podcast and To Be Magnetic by Lacy Phillips (code ANNE for 15% off at checkout)
Trust Your Vibes: Live An Extraordinary Life By Using Your Intuitive Intelligence by Sonia Choquette and podcast “It’s All Related”
A Year of Magical Living with Imogen Roy podcast
The Magic of Surrender by Kute Blackson
The Power of NOW by Eckhart Tolle
The Surrender Experiment by Michael Singer
Speak Your Truth: Connecting With Your Inner Truth And Learning To Find Your Voice by Fearne Cotton
A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson
Vibrate Higher Daily by Lalah Delia
Tina Roth Eisenberg “Trust Breeds Magic” DO Lectures (on YouTube)
The Universe Has Your Back and Super Attractor by Gabrielle Bernstein (and the Dear Gabby podcast)
Spiritual tools: Lee Harris Energy monthly energy updates, Chani app + podcast, Embodied Astrology podcast, The Pattern app
CONNECTION
We Should Get Together: The Secret To Cultivating Better Friendships by Kat Vellos
A Social Life, with Friends podcast by Madeleine Dore
Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman
The Art Of Gathering: How We Meet And Why It Matters by Priya Parker
U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy’s work around loneliness
The Gottman Institute (on relationships)
Where do we begin podcast with Esther Perel
Just Enough Research by Erika Hall
COMFORT
Wintering by Katherine May and How We Live Now podcast
The Comfort Book by Matt Haig
All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks