OVERRIDE! Resources

I hope you enjoyed reading OVERRIDE! What if there was another way? A pocket playbook for possibility. The resources from the back of the book are listed below. They are to help you go deeper into the subjects that pique your curiosity. (If you haven’t read OVERRIDE! yet, the list below will be far less overwhelming if you read the book first.)

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MINDSET

Mindset: Changing The Way You Think To Fulfill Your Potential by Dr. Carol S. Dweck (+ A helpful overview post)

Deepak Chopra’s 21 Days of Abundance meditation podcast 

Shinetheory.com or listen to Call Your Girlfriend’s “Shine Theory 101 episode”

“Bouncing Back from Rejection” episode of WorkLife podcast with Adam Grant 

Radically Content: Being Satisfied In An Endlessly Dissatisfied World by Jamie Varon

Brené Brown’s TED talk “The Power of Vulnerability,” “The Call to Courage” on Netflix; books: The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly

Playing Big: Find Your Voice, Your Mission, Your Message by Tara Mohr 

The Culture Map: Decoding How People Think, Lead, And Get Thingsdone Across Cultures by Erin Meyer 

Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo (which started as an Oprah talk)

A More Beautiful Question: The Power of Inquiry to Spark Breakthrough Ideas by Warren Berger

DO Listen by Bobette Buster

You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero

Lisa Congdon Sessions podcast “Episode 2: Own Your Story” (on imposter syndrome)

“Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome” on Harvard Business Review

NEUROSCIENCE

Livewired: The Inside Story Of The Ever Changing Brain by David Eagleman; also featured episode on Unlocking Us podcast by Brené Brown 

The Source: Open Your Mind. Change Your Life. by neuroscientist and executive coach Dr. Tara Swart Bieber and podcast Reinvent Yourself (listen to her episode on Disrupt Yourself)

Wired To Create: Unraveling The Mysteries Of The Creative Mind by Carolyn Gregoire and Scott Barry Kaufman

The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton

MINDFULNESS + EMBODIMENT

Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice by Shunryu Suzuki

When Things Fall Apart and Welcoming the Unwelcome by Pema Chodron

The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday

The Creative Act: A Way Of Being by Rick Rubin

“Letters from Love” with Elizabeth Gilbert elizabethgilbert.substack.com

Finding Our Way podcast by Prentice Hemphill

How We Heal by Alex Elle

We Can Do Hard Things podcast with Glennon Doyle and guest Dr. Hillary McBride, author of The Wisdom of Your Body: Healing Wholeness, And Connection Through Embodied Living

Donna Chapman, cofounder of the Conscious Leadership Group on The Tim Ferriss Show podcast episode #536 on the “full body yes”

Hell Yeah or No by Derek Sivers 

Meditative Story podcast

Breath: The New Science Of A Lost Art by James Nestor

Radical Acceptance and Radical Compassion by mindfulness teacher Tara Brach and meditations (+ NYT How to Meditate guide)

Meditation apps: Calm, Insight Timer, Ten Percent Happier, Headspace

MENTAL HEALTH + THERAPY

Search for “wheel of emotions”

Permission to Feel by Marc Brackett, creator How We Feel app for tracking your moods and feelings; Featured on Unlocking Us podcast with Brené Brown 

Already Enough: A Path To Self-Acceptance by Lisa Olivera

How to Meet Yourself Workbook by Nicole LePerla (Holistic Psychologist online)

The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love by Vienna Pharaon (and This Keeps Happening podcast)

“The single most important parenting strategy” TED Talk by Dr. Becky Kennedy + Good Inside: A Practical Guide To Becoming The Parent You Want To Be by Becky Kennedy (also good for reparenting oneself)

An Introduction to Internal Family Systems and No Bad Parts by Richard C. Schwartz

The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor Maté

Homecoming: Overcome Fear And Trauma To Reclaim Your Whole Authentic Self by Dr. Thema Bryant and “Homecoming” podcast

“The Me You Can’t See” documentary by Oprah and Prince Harry (AppleTV+)

“Stutz” Netflix documentary with Jonah Hill’s therapist

“Man Talks with Connor Beaton” podcast

Dr. Kristin Neff’s work on self-compassion at self-compassion.org

Nick Ortner of The Tapping Solution (thetappingsolution.com

The School of Life: An Emotional Education by Alain de Botton

Burnout: The Secret To Unlocking The Stress Cycle by Amelia and Emily Nagoski and guests on “Unlocking Us” with Brené Brown

Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live by Emma Reed Turrell (andBest Friend Therapy podcast with Elizabeth Day and Emma Reed Turrell; note it has been rebranded as “Friendship Therapy” now with Turrell as a solo host in recent seasons)

Codependent No More: How To Stop Controlling by Melody Beattie or listen to her on We Can Do Hard Things

“Inside Out” (Pixar film)

“Couples Therapy” show on Showtime

BOUNDARIES

The Joy Of Saying No: A Simple Plan To Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, And Say Yes To The Life You Want by Natalie Lue and her podcast “Baggage Reclaim

Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab (also on “Ten Percent Happier” podcast

Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free by Teri Cole (also on Marie Forleo’s podcast)

The Book Boundaries: Set The Limits That Set You Free by Melissa Urban (also on Everything Happens with Kate Bowler)

One Sec app is a tool that can help establish boundaries with social media

HABITS/RITUAL

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way To Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear (also on “Disrupt Yourself” podcast)

The Power Of Ritual: Turning Everyday Activities Into Soulful Practices by Casper ter Kuile

4,000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman (listen to him on Hurry Slowly podcast)

“Hurry Slowly” podcast with Jocelyn Glei

I Didn’t Do The Thing Today: Letting Go Of Productivity Guilt by Madeleine Dore

Do Pause by Robert Poynton

The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

BJ Fogg “tiny habits” free five-day program at tinyhabits.com

The High Five Habit by Mel Robbins

Essentialism by Greg McKweon

Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life by Nir Eyal

WHEN: The Scientific Secrets Of Perfect Timing by Daniel Pink

Checklist Manifesto by Atul Gawande (+ nice overview of his work in the “Designing for Diversity” on The Creative Independent)

(“This Morning Walk” podcast by Libby DeLana and Alex Elle

Keep Going! by Austin Kleon

SOCIAL JUSTICE

Whitesupremacyculture.info

surj.org

Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad

How to Be an Anti-Racist by Ibram X. Kendi

So You Want to Talk About Race? by Ijeoma Oluo

I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness by Austin Channing Brown

“13th” [2016 documentary]

Project Inkblot’s “How to Begin Designing for Diversity” on The Creative Independent

Rachel Cargle and The Great Unlearn

Antionette Carroll, The Creative Reaction Lab (crxlab.org)

SOCIETAL SHIFTS

We Can Do Hard Things podcast with Glennon and Amanda Doyle, and Abby Wambach

Rest as Resistance: a manifesto by Tricia Hersey (and listen to the episode on We Can Do Hard Things)

Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way To Think About Abortion by Gabrielle Blair 

On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins And The Price Women Pay To Be Good by Elise Loehnen and Pulling the Thread podcast

This Could Be Our Future by Yancey Strickler 

How I Built This podcast with Ben & Jerry, and with Yvon Chouinard 

Benandjerrys.com

Professional Troublemaker: The Fear-Fighter Manual by Luvvie Ajayi Jones

How to Change the World by John-Paul Flintoff

Robert Reich (robertreich.org)

The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: A New Paradigm for Sustainable Success by Jim Dethmer, Diana Chapman, Kaley Klemp 

Winner Takes All: The Elite Charade Of Changing The World by Anand Giriharardas

The Body is Not an Apology: The power of radical self love by Sonya Renee Taylor

Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds by adrienne marie brown

No One Is Coming To Save Us podcast [on US childcare] with Kristen Bell and Gloria Riviera

Anne Helen Peterson’s Culture Study newsletter annehelen.substack.com

Deepa Iyer’s work, socialchangemap.com

“Barbie” the movie (2023)

CHRONIC ILLNESS

Disability Visibility Project + book (disabilityvisibilityproject.com)

The Invisible Kingdom: Reimagining Chronic Illness by Meghan O’Rourke

Between Two Kingdoms by Suleika Jaouad (also of The Isolation Journals

Everything Happens For A Reason: And Other Lies I’ve Loved and No Cure for Being Human by Kate Bowler (and her podcast Everything Happens with Kate Bowler

The Gift of Help with Ashley Usiskin podcast

Mismatch: How Inclusion Shapes Design by Kat Holmes

Being Mortal: Medicine And What Matters In The End by Atul Gawande

GRIEF + LOSS

The Modern Loss Handbook: An Interactive Guide to Moving Through Grief and Building Your Resilience by Rebecca Soffer (cofounder of modernloss.com)

Alua Arthur, a death doula behind Going with Grace TED talk “Why thinking about death helps you live a better life” (listen to her on We Can Do Hard Things

“We don’t ‘move on’ from grief. We move forward with it” TED talk by Nora McInerny

Final Gifts: Understanding The Special Awareness, Needs, And Communication Of The Dying by Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelley 

Option B by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant 

LIFE GUIDANCE

Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans 

Design the Life You Love by Ayse Birsel

How to Fail with Elizabeth Day podcast and book

Life is in the Transitions by Bruce Feiler

The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks

The Heroine’s Journey by Maureen Murdock

Reset with Liz Tran podcast

Nancy Sun of Possible Things 

On Being podcast by Krista Tippett

ZigZag podcast with Manoush Zomorodi

AWE + WONDER

Wanderful: Human Navigation For A Complex World – Find Wonder In The Everyday. Every Day. by David Pearl

StreetWisdom.org (+ Spotify prompts)

Play: How It Shapes The Brain, Opens The Imagination, And Invigorates The Soul by Stuart Brown, M.D. with Christopher Vaughan

The Power of Wonder: The Extraordinary Emotion That Will Change the Way You Live, Learn, and Lead by Monica C. Parker ( + listen to her on Expanded podcast)

The Art of Noticing: 131 Ways to Spark Creativity, Find Inspiration, and Discover Joy in the Everyday by Rob Walker (+ his newsletter)

“Play your way to joy” TEDx by Roger Manix

The Thrilling New Science of Awe by Dacher Keltner; featured on On Being with Krista Tippett

The Power of Fun: How to Feel Alive Again by Catherine Price, “Why Having Fun is the Secret to a Healthier Life” TED Talk (+ “How to Feel Alive” Substack)

Joyful: The Surprising Power Of Ordinary Things To Create Extra Ordinary Happiness by Ingrid Fetell Lee and “Aesthetics of Joy”

INTUITION + INNER MAGIC

Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

Expanded podcast and To Be Magnetic by Lacy Phillips (code ANNE for 15% off at checkout)

Trust Your Vibes: Live An Extraordinary Life By Using Your Intuitive Intelligence by Sonia Choquette and podcast “It’s All Related” 

A Year of Magical Living with Imogen Roy podcast

The Magic of Surrender by Kute Blackson

The Power of NOW by Eckhart Tolle

The Surrender Experiment by Michael Singer

Speak Your Truth: Connecting With Your Inner Truth And Learning To Find Your Voice by Fearne Cotton

A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson

Vibrate Higher Daily by Lalah Delia

Tina Roth Eisenberg “Trust Breeds Magic” DO Lectures (on YouTube)

The Universe Has Your Back and Super Attractor by Gabrielle Bernstein (and the Dear Gabby podcast) 

Spiritual tools: Lee Harris Energy monthly energy updates, Chani app + podcast, Embodied Astrology podcast, The Pattern app

CONNECTION

We Should Get Together: The Secret To Cultivating Better Friendships by Kat Vellos

A Social Life, with Friends podcast by Madeleine Dore

Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman

The Art Of Gathering: How We Meet And Why It Matters by Priya Parker

U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy’s work around loneliness

The Gottman Institute (on relationships)

Where do we begin podcast with Esther Perel

Just Enough Research by Erika Hall

COMFORT

Wintering by Katherine May and How We Live Now podcast

The Comfort Book by Matt Haig

All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks